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A Paraphrase from Adytum:
Adytum 's story is a part of me. It is made up of many parts: my stories, my father’s stories and my mother’s stories. My mother’s...

Mary Cools
Mar 15, 20251 min read
Another description of Adytum
By Mary Cools This description of Adytum was solicited by another client, and they requested 300 words. While the content in my...

Mary Cools
Mar 12, 20252 min read
Learning About PTSD 4
PTSD Survivors -- find Grounding Techniques and Mindfulness! Information from the Horsham Clinic (Philadelphia, Pa.): Grounding...

Mary Cools
Mar 11, 20252 min read
As requested, a description of Adytum
A description of Adytum By Mary Cools: Recently, I was asked to write a 500-word description of my memoir, Adytum . You cannot...

Mary Cools
Mar 10, 20253 min read
Therapy and Professional Support for Trauma Survivors
Creating a Supportive Space for PTSD Awareness 1 Did you know that there is a thing called PTSD radio? I did not. So, I looked it up....

Mary Cools
Mar 6, 20252 min read
Review of Finding Me by Viola Davis
This memoir is raw and truthful. It delves into the world of the very, very poor and unfortunate. Viola Davis brings hardship to life for...

Mary Cools
Mar 5, 20252 min read
For those of you who read Adytum by Mary Cools: SOME LEAVEN!
Fluffy White Frosting - a trigger buster for sure! Combine in the top of a double boiler: 3/4 cup sugar 1/4 cup corn syrup 2...

Mary Cools
Mar 1, 20251 min read
Learning About PTSD 3
The Warning Signs of PTSD: These signs are what the Delta Airlines survivors should be looking for in themselves . . . ...

Mary Cools
Feb 26, 20252 min read
Learning About PTSD 2
Support for Survivors Those of us who know people who are survivors, and have PTSD because of what they have survived, will always want...

Mary Cools
Feb 22, 20252 min read
He Touched My Adytum
He Touched My Adytum “My father’s silences were bits of him that I could absorb, feel. Even as a child, I sensed where he went, why he...

Mary Cools
Feb 17, 20251 min read
Learning About PTSD 1
1. PTSD and nightmares go hand in hand. The nightmares are not even always about the trauma suffered by the person who ended up with...

Mary Cools
Feb 13, 20253 min read
Creating a Supportive Space for PTSD Sufferers - Types of Trauma
As I try harder and harder to create this supportive space for those with the condition labelled PTSD, I think it is important to...

Mary Cools
Feb 12, 20252 min read
Tuesdays with Morrie -- author Mitch Albom
Truly a book about life’s greatest lesson. A dying professor teaches his student about life. An astounding story unravels the joys of a...

Mary Cools
Feb 7, 20251 min read
OCD -- A Way to Cope with Trauma
With PTSD, of course our nightmares/dreams can trigger some very intrusive thoughts during our waking/worrying hours. It is recommended...

Mary Cools
Feb 6, 20251 min read
Generational PTSD -- It is confusing!
PTSD has a bothersome symptom, nightmares! Often, I do not even remember what the nightmare was but I awake in the night with some...

Mary Cools
Feb 5, 20251 min read
Cooking is an Elixir
Some of you may wonder why I include recipes in my posts. Well, my mother taught that cooking was a cure all. Not the act of eating but...

Mary Cools
Feb 2, 20252 min read
Sharing Adytum:
Adytum (ad-it-um): the most sacred place within a sacred place; the inner shrine of the heart, the place inside you where you feel a...

Mary Cools
Jan 29, 20251 min read
It’s NOT Just Me? Is it?
Identifying PTSD: I am feeling quite vulnerable today. I feel this way sometimes when I cannot control my self-doubt or insecurities....

Mary Cools
Jan 25, 20252 min read
"Well Aged -- Making the Most of Your Platinum Years" by Ralph Milton
In this case, direct quotes from Milton's book say it all: “It takes me ten or fifteen minutes just to put on my support socks in the...

Mary Cools
Jan 18, 20252 min read
Marshmallow Treats
Now here is a recipe that would comfort anyone on their worst day. 1/4 cup butter or margarine 40 regular sized marshmallows 1/2 teaspoon...

Mary Cools
Jan 10, 20251 min read
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